The healing presence of family and friends
When a group gathers with the intention of witnessing an uncoupling ritual, this moment brings all people together on the same emotional and spiritual page, so to speak. We have an opportunity to go within and feel our very painful emotions about this dismantling, our loss, anger and pain. Many of us know firsthand the pain of a breakup, either ours, one in our immediate family or a dear friends’.
In the emotional world, when given an opportunity to go within and connect with our feelings, there may be emotions that previously have been unacknowledged, emerge.
This is a profound healing moment, letting emotions flow freely through your body. This frees the energy from crystallizing and staying stuck in your body. MOVE THE FEELINGS. Feel them, move them.
The most extraordinary opening happens when we, as a group, move our pain toward love. The moment is palpable; there is a shifting of energy that all can feel. The group is imprinted with the power of love and the healing that happens to each one of us. We each leave the ritual a bit different than when we arrived, more in touch with ourselves, more in touch with compassion and truly connected with each other.
We bring our authentic selves to the ritual and find healing for ourselves. We then can offer this energy to the former couple.
It doesn’t get any more important than that.