Healing After Divorce

Your divorce papers are almost signed, your family/home has been disassembled, and now, you and your former spouse are each left to deal with the pain, resentment and anguish of this decision. Your world has permanently changed. You are exhausted and sad. Bone weary tired.
 
Now what happens?
 
How you emerge emotionally and spiritually from this process is your decision, your choice. This is one of your greatest freedoms; you emerge emotionally and spiritually on your terms. You do not need to look to your spouse for permission, you go within and create your emotional/spiritual divorce.

With this freedom, comes responsibility.

Have you given thought to invite the energy of healing into your divorce? Are you ready to look at this possibility? Healing for yourself, your spouse, your children?
 
You have this freedom. You can choose to heal through your divorce. Know this. Know this from the depths of your soul, you may heal as you walk through the "dark night of the soul”. You may emerge from this experience more in touch with your self and your life's passions.
 
We believe this is possible.

We believe for a myriad of reasons, marriages end. There is no way to avoid the pain and anguish of this decision. There is no way. But, we also believe you do not have to stay stuck in these feelings and carry them within you for the rest of your life. When you feel your emotions and take responsibility for your healing, healing happens.

Healing is not easy, it does not follow a linear time frame and it is not all “lightness and fluff.” Healing will take you to your core and bring you to the Void where you will face your greatest fears and most powerful emotions. This will take time. This is all part of the process.

But, once you have done your gut-wrenching, emotional work, there may come a time, when you are ready to dissolve the emotional bond between you and your former spouse. You will be ready for a complete energetic separation and a dissolving of your partnership. You may be ready to call your energy back from your marriage and reclaim it to create your next chapter, your “new” life.

Rituals may aid in this creation.

Can you envision a formal proclamation of the ending of your marriage, the releasing of each partner from the marriage commitment and the gathering of your family and friends to bring their love and support as you start your new life?

Can you imagine the power to this? Can you feel the vortex of energy that this ceremony could bring to your life? And to the lives of everyone touched by this divorce?

Remember, a divorce touches the lives of many.

If you can imagine this, you can create it. Are you open to this idea? Are you ready to hear more about this? Spend time in your inner world and get in touch with your feelings and thoughts about this possibility. What would you like to do? Would this be something you would like to bring to your life?

Bring this idea to your inner world. Envision this. Think about it on your timing and your terms. Play with the idea and see what your heart tells you, what your soul says.

Listen.